More Intelligence Less Sex

So I couldn’t resist commenting on this story at Gene Expression about how smarter people have less sex. Tyler Cowen’s original post on the subject can be found here but it’s the analysis from the first link that I really wanted to talk about. In particular the arguments made suggesting that more intelligent individuals have a lower libido are particularly dubious.

For instance here is the primary argument that individuals with high IQ may have lower libidos (emphasis/links from original):

Perhaps more revealing, HS, also showed that intelligence correlates with less sex within marriage for the same age range. While still consistent with pregnancy fears and competing interests, lower sex drive seems like a better fit. In fact another revealing finding from the Counterpoint survey was that while 95% of US men and 70% of women masturbate, this number is only 68% of men and 20% of women at MIT!

Looking only at MIT seems to be a huge biasing factor given that we know foreign students are massively overrepresented at MIT. With many students coming from societies with more traditional attitudes (or just different) about sexuality it would be an error to try and chalk up these differences to intelligence. Still intuitively it seems plausible that nerds (rather than smart people in general) masturbate less than other groups but a much better explanation for this is that sexual experience makes people comfortable with sex. It stands to reason that having had regular sex in a relationship would make one more comfortable with your sexuality than you would have been if you had remained a virgin. In other words there is no reason to believe that the lack of masturbation at MIT causes the lack of sex at MIT rather than vice versa.

The study about sex during marriage is equally uncompelling as it only gives self-reported sexual frequency. Thus this could just as well reflect a correlation between lower intelligence and exaggeration of sexual frequency. Either because of a desire to live up to some macho ideal or simple self-projection of a ‘normal’ amount1 of sex2. In any case it isn’t very conclusive.

Finally let’s look at what Gene Expression cites as the supposed explanation of this effect:

So intelligent people have lower libidos and less masculine physiques. What hormone is responsible for both sex drive and masculine builds? That’s right: testosterone. And two new papers suggest that testosterone may depress IQ. One team found that salivary testosterone levels were lower for preadolescent boys with IQs above 130 and below 70. (the same two groups most likely to be virgins in adolescence)

While there seems to be some fairly compelling research connecting testosterone levels in the low male range/high female range with high intelligence the correlation between Testosterone levels and sex drive is weak and it’s far from obvious that adding more Testosterone to healthy individuals would increase their sex drive.

Also I want to challenge the duality proposed between people with higher intelligence being more sexually conservative or more sexually adventurous. It can both be true that smarter people are more likely to visit a prostitute (there is a larger high risk tail) while the median individual is actually more sexually conservative. I’ll avoid giving personal examples here but based on the people I know this certainly seems like a reasonable possibility.

Ultimately I’m not sure why smarter people end up getting less sex. I suspect some of it has to do with being told they are less sexually desirable, either directly by reducing their pool of sexual partners or indirectly by reducing their confidence. But it could also be that most sex is the result of bad judgment (drunk party sex) or girls being pressured into sex and smart girls/guys are less susceptible to these things. It could be a lot of things but right now we don’t have much hard evidence for any of them.


  1. I seem to remember seeing a study awhile ago that suggested people’s estimates of their sexual frequency were way off. They would answer something like once a day but really have sex more like twice a week. 

  2. One might worry about the same effect accounting for the supposed correlation between virginity and intelligence as well. However, I suspect when answering surveys people are more likely to exaggerate a frequency than outright lie about their virginity. 

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  1. Matt says:

    I think high testosterone and IQ are inversely correlated, but for a different reason. Anyone with high enough testosterone will see sex as the good in life and pursue it likewise, to the detriment of developing other wisdom. Someone with less high testosterone will not pursue it so diligently, and will likely have more room in their life for developing other talents. Someone with high testosterone and IQ could just use the really high IQ and NLP people into bed with them every night.

    By IQ I mean more towards wisdom, which comes with experience and proper application of old knowledge to new situations.

    I’d bet most of the nerds in HS had lower testosterone than the jocks.

    • TruePath says:

      Well I agree nerds have lower testosterone but there are some pretty compelling studies linking fetal testosterone to intelligence. Also there are some reasons to believe it might have some more direct brain effect.

      • Matt says:

        So less fetal testosterone would lead to more intelligence, or the opposite?

        • TruePath says:

          The studies seem to suggest there is an optimal amount in the low male range. So for most men less testosterone in utero would make them smarter and most women more testosterone would make them smarter. Assuming of course that this correlation is causative (which seems reasonable).

  2. ET says:

    I believe that there is a connection between Intelegence and testosterone, as some males, while growing up are endowed with the bodybuilding effects of this hormone, and some are not. The result of having a built body, naturally and not killing yourself in the gym to get it would be great, as this will definitely attract the women. The result of being a greek god is overwhelming, as the pressure of having so many women interested is taxing ones person. True, that a not so gifted person has less muscular features, and that the female types of the earlier years, with low intelegence, look for size and build in the opposite sex. The ego damaging effects of the testosterone cause the not so gifted person to seek study or hobbys to replace the need to attract the women. But wait,when the testosterone ladened jocks get older, their hair starts to fall out, they get fat and out of shape and to start with they were not so bright anyway. The not so gifted person, builds the Microsoft Industry and can have any woman in the universe. There is no justice.

    ET
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  3. Opivy1980 says:

    I stumbled across this site by accident, actually while I was searching for something to help me find intellectual women who have high libido’s, so being a member of this group here are my reasons for my current celibacy:

    1. Most women (and men) I meet are intellectually inferior and it is frustrating to have a conversation with them, I fell like I am talking to a child most of the time.

    2. Most intelligent people I meet aren’t sexually adventurous enough I like all sorts of what you would call alternative sexuality that most intellectuals don’t know anything about.

    3. Most people aren’t good at sex it is something that you need to practice and study. for example, when I lost my virginity at the age of 22 my partner didn’t believe I was a virgin because I had been studying sexual practices
      since I was in high school so I would be ready. Since most aren’t any good I can take care of myself better no loss.

    That is my two cents on the topic.

    • TruePath says:

      Huh, interesting. I have two comments.

      1) In my experience sexual appetite, sexual adventurousness, and intelligence are correlated in women. Of course it’s only a correlation (and probably kind of weak) so it has plenty of counterexamples but generally I’ve found that if you find smart women to date you will find women who will do kinky shit.

      Partially this just reflects the fact that it still requires a certain amount of non-conformity and aggressiveness to grab the understanding/knowledge necessary to be smart. Especially for women given the social incentives that favor being pretty and dumb.

      2) So what if most people aren’t good at sex. It is about effort and practice (there was a recent slashdot story that claimed that nerds are better lovers as a result of this). If you find someone who is smart, sex positive and into you they will learn what to do.

      3) Studying sex like that seems a bit obsessive. Not only is it more fun to figure it out with someone else if you get too focused on this it will interfere with meeting/attracting ppl you want to date.

  4. Anonymous says:

    I would like to point out the fact many of the mid-nineteenth century scientists and early-twentieth century had so many sexual partners and it was once assume that there was a direct proportionality between sex and testosterone and intelligence.

  5. chris dawson says:

    I only read as far as the opening paragraph before placing this comment.

    Even the most cursory examination of the sexual peccadilloes of the great minds and creatives throughout history will reveal a diverse range of perversity.

    This is born out of their higher intelligence, their greater ability to accept, comprehend, desire to question, and self confidence (lack of fear of social/legal bariers) In addition their capacity and voracity stands way above the ‘norm’

    No studies are required to identify this.

    • TruePath says:

      Really? You know smart people are less afraid of social/legal barriers without testing it? Seems to me like I know a lot of nerds who are way more worried about even minor legal infractions than your average person. Indeed, poor social treatment in the past could make them quite cautious about risking social rejection.

      Also are the stories you read a representative sample of people’s sexual experiences in the past? Might it be that great minds who wrote about their sexual exploits could make it seem high class/literary or simply a fascinating quirk of a genius while the poor working sod who coarsely bragged about fucking a girl and a pig didn’t get his story into the annals of history?

      Maybe people are just way more perverted than you expect.

      You can do a fair bit of physics in the armchair but in sociology about the best you can hope for is to make a theory seem a bit more likely than not without data.

  6. Xamuel says:

    One thing I’ve noticed is that when I focus very deeply on very intellectual topics (usually mathematics or programming) my libido lowers. But it’s a temporary thing. Soon as I switch my attention to something less “pure thought”, the libido goes back up.

    One thing to consider is that “intelligence” is difficult to measure. A very pragmatic way we might measure intelligence is, the ability to leverage thought to get what you want. Assuming you want sex, then, by this definition, if you can get sex, that means you’re smarter, and if you can’t get sex, that means you’re less smart.

    For example, suppose a hyperintelligent transhuman is transplanted on Earth in a human body and urgently wants to have sex. This superbeing will quickly observe and comprehend the appropriate “mating rituals”, including things like going to bars, popping your collar up, listening to Lady Gaga, etc. etc. The alien will then perform these things with great skill and get lots of sex. A naive human observer might look at the alien and think, “bah, stupid brainless jock.”

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